Monday, June 22, 2009

Goal Oriented or Forward Moving?

Fear of Failure - What is holding me back? Am I fearful that I will fail one more time? We have probably discussed this before, but I am beginning to recognize that fear plays too large a role in my life. I need to let go of fear and step out in faith. As far as my food stronghold is concerned, this is not just one more guilt trip I have laid at my feet, but acknowledgment that I have been giving food a much too high a priority on my list of needs.

So what does this mean and how can I overcome this hurdle? It is tough to admit it, but food has become a god in my life. When I am completely honest with myself I admit that I turn to food instead of prayer; I turn to a quick fix instead of the One who promises to give me my daily bread. Here are a few points I am going to practice when I am looking for immediate gratification. I am going to change my:

  • Focus - I will take my focus off of what I have in the cupboard that will satisfy my sweet tooth and will put my eyes on God.
  • Future - I will build a healthy future by praying for God to fill me with a desire for Him and not for food.
  • Frame of mind - I will re-frame my desires and attempt to replace unhealthy or destructive habits with things that promote peace and harmony in my life.
  • Fail quotient - I will no longer look at those days where I didn't live up to my expectations as days of utter failure, but rather as days of learning and practicing.
Remember, "Failures are finger posts on the road to achievement." C.S. Lewis.

Scripture encouragement for today is from Psalm 18:30 As for God, his way is perfect; the word of the LORD is flawless. He is a shield for all who take refuge in hm.

Grace 'n Grins,
Judy

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